Wednesday, July 20, 2011

I'm 16 and think about sex 24/7?

Its raging hormones my friend....best thing I can suggest and is give yourself a good..."session" as regular as you want. and try to focus on it releiving yourself of the thoughts / desires for a while.

How is this book idea?

I love the story in the Hunger Games, and I wanted to write a book somewhat like it, except with a twist: A group of kids are mutated and have special powers which they don't know about, and scientists are working an experiment in which they place all of the kids in an enclosed arena and they see how long it takes the kids to figure out their powers, then they must fight until only one person is left. Too unoriginal?

Change of policy of company sick pay scheme?

My company have for the last 30 years operated a company sick pay scheme whereas you would receive up to 20 days sick pay. Although at the end of the entire contract it is written '****** reserve the right to make make changes', they have not been specific to what changes, (does that give them right to change things willy nilly?) and after 30 years of sick pay would it not be implied that it has become custom and practise and therefore would form part of the contract? However, they have now introduced without agreement from their employees, that after the 3rd sickness, sick pay would not be paid (even though they are operating it as 2 times off, then lose pay). Are they able to do this legally or are they in breach of contract? Thank you

Hair stylist has just cut off all my hair!?

Because they usually need a clear picture to understand what you want because your the only one who knows what you want not them.

WHY IS IT THAT NO ONE BELIEVES THIS!!!?

Because you made it up and felt it was so incompetent that it needed to be copy and pasted and posted again. Thanks for the points, again.

My friend cuts herself, what should i do?

Well, she's been clinically depressed for about a year. She's also bipolar. She used to cut herself, but in February she went to the hospital. She stayed for about a week. She claims that she is getting better. She went to the hospital for attempting suicide, not for cutting. She also only eats 700 calories a day. She says that one day she will kill herself, but not for awhile. She seems happy. She told me i was the first person she's told this to. She doesn't tell her mom this, or her therapist. She told me she felt selfish because she feels bad about her life when other people have it much worse. She said she is planning on possibly killing herself next year. Also, she told me there is a 95% chance she will kill herself one day. She hasn't cut herself in about a month. PLease help..thank you:)

Did my USB 2.0 hard drive kill my laptop?

No. It didn't kill your machines. What it most likely did to your Desktop was nothing. Your laptop though most likely shorted out due to the eminence power needed to power up a USB HDD. Just let your machine sit for a while, then turn it back on. If that doesn't work pull out the battery and wait a minute and plug it back in. The worst that could happen is that the USB HDD has a virus. It can't kill your machines. Let me know how it goes.

Do you think there are some downfalls to being pretty?

Yes the main problem to being pretty and intelligent is that other insecure girls will get a kick out of putting you down. Unless you are in a very kind and loving environment this is bound to happen. Therefore pretty girls should have a very thick skin. People are insecure and unfortunately if it means putting someone else down to make themselves feel better they will do it...sad but true.

Problems with Skype Sound Input / Output?

You can't do it I have the same problem ur computer dousnt do it ull need a set no matter what maybe ud like to by the microphone if u really dnt want to use head sets

Can anyone recomed a hollywood tour line?

Goin to LA wanna go on a tour bus that is open air not an enclosed bus. Wanna see hollywood sign, walk of fame, rodeo drive, chinese theater, star homes all in one tour ride. How much does it cost?

Which sibset would be cuter?

I like the 2nd set of names... but if you call her Sophia Grace (my first and one of my middle names) it'll be less unique if you call her Sophie (i hate being called Sophie) .. i get called Soph or Sophia or my nickname which isn't Sophie.

Im not underweight am i?

Im 5'7 and 117. I usd to be 137 but stress has been gettn to me n ive lost 20 lbs in 2 months. Im not clinically underweight am i?

I'm 16 and think about sex 24/7?

This means that you are a healthy, normal functioning, teenage male. This is the way the guy's mind, and some girl's minds, work. Be thankful that you are so healthy and be grateful that you live in a day and age that you can use the internet to watch free porn.

Tanning for super pale skin?

First off, if he's picking on you for having white skin I am surprised you haven't said anything to him. That is disrespectful and I'm sure there are things that he can improve on as well (small package, small brain, small etc). Secondly, if it really does worry you, after using an exfoliator in the shower, towel off and mix some body lotion with a light bronzer (anything by jergens or l'oreal) and apply to your body. You should darken after two days of application. Make sure to do it evenly and wash your hands after,

I am a nihilist among other things.......Is this crazy or normal?

Society is insane. Not you. I wish there were more people like you. I think very similarly to you actually :)

:: WHY am i like this? :: heeeeeelp! thanks.?

your expectations of others is way too high!!!!!! No offense but you really need to talk to a professional about this not the yahoo answers community.

Custody agreement for two under 2 while parents live in different states?

I'm planning on filing for custody for my kids jst to have an agreement w/their father on paper he will live in california while I will be living in texas w/my two babies. While the father & I were tgtr I would stay home & he works in the oilfield therefore there was no need for me to work but now that we're heading our separate ways I don't have a job.. & as for ' child support' that will be settled out of court..My question is since I don't have a job yet what are the chances that the judge will give the father primary custody..

What does it mean when in my dream my sister was shot in the mouth and killed?

if your dream was very vivid, and you remember details, you might have a gift of dreaming future events. this stuff isn't just in the movies, is she suicidal? did you take any medication before you slept, because medicine can give you insanely vivid dreams, especially ambien, xanax, melatonin, i dreamed one time very vividly i was loading up very specific guns i know and unloading on people at bus stops and outrunning cops..scariest craziest experience of my life just because of medicine.

Do I have Pectus excavatum? Please Help!?

You do have pectus excavatum and it can be corrected surgically with really good results using the Nuss procedure. Usually it gets worse as kids grow up. I would go to a pediatric surgeon and have him evaluate you and have him tell you what he/she thinks. If you aren't having any symptoms and it dosent bother you then you likely wont need surgery if you don't want to but it's a good idea to have a specialist at least evaluate you.

How can he get custody in Tennessee?

My fiance has a daughter from a previous relationship she is now 2 years old. The mother of the child has another child from a another man but does not have custody of this child, she lost custody of this one when it was born. My fiance had emergency custody of his daughter for the first 3 months of her life and he was attempting to get full custody but the judge ruling over the case was raised by a single mother and therefore partial to the mothers having custody. He has his daughter almost every day of every month but still has to pay child support. On the rare occasions that she is with her mother, she doesn't have a room to sleep in...is constantly moved from place to place because the mother doesn't have a stable home since the mother has a new fiance every month...is put in the company of men that do drugs....lives in filthy houses....and the mother never has money for food because she spends all the child support on herself to get her hair and nails done and get alcohol. My fiance and I would like for him to have custody because he loves his daughter very much and makes sure that she has food and is in a safe environment. He wants what is best for her but every effort he has made to get custody has been more and more disappointing and my fiance is getting a little discouraged even though he continues to try. the mother continues to threaten that she will not let him have his weekends and she threatens to take the child completely away and call police if he tries to see his daughter if he continues to try to take custody. I tell him she can't do that but I have never dealt with custody cases before and I don't know how to help him get custody other than give him my support and help him continue to not get discouraged....what can we do?

My dog just bit me for the first time, please help?

I have a 3year old female toy poodle and she bit me today for the first time she wont let me carry her or anything and she has never done that to me, She usually is very sweet with me and my dad only, so he biting me is very strange because im the one she trusts the most and is always friendly with me she only listens to me as well therefore her not letting me carry her is very unusual i dont know what to do? she doesnt listen to me when i call her or anything, i noticed she looks kind of sad though. I also have a male toy poodle just recently got him about a year ago and he has been acting very annoying and barking all the time. Today i took him inside to give him a bath and left my other dog outside so i think maybe she got sensitive because i didnt take her inside with me, she is very spoiled. Well i would be very happy if anyone helps me with this problem. Should i take her to the vet? Can she be pregnant? i've heard that they dont like being touched when they are pregnant?

Why did my hair turn grey so early?

I started slightly turning gray when I was 12 or so. Now I have tons of gray hair I've heard that it can and cannot come from stress. My father has epilepsy and I've heard things recently saying children of epileptic parents have many disorders. I have bad stress management ADD and OCD not clinically diagnosed but I have all the symptoms and people tell me I have these all the time. Are these all related in anyway? Thanks.

What if a minor threatens to kill me?

A minor (16 to be exact) threatened to "murder" me in my sleep with a "rusty machete". These are the exact words she used. It was in a Facebook message. I'm 18. Of course it takes a LOT to get a minor in trouble, but I'm pregnant, and she is perfectly aware of this. She is technically threatening me and my unborn child, is she not? If I were a minor I'd probably have better luck, but my baby's a minor. Should I do something about this or would it be a waste of time? I know she's most likely not going to do anything, but she's caused me so many problems as of late and it's put a lot of stress on me and therefore my unborn son. Just because someone is 16 doesn't mean they should be allowed to threaten people. Would I have any more luck with a lawyer?

Is it best to neuter as soon as clinically possible, or wait until the dog grows up more?

there will be mixed answers on here about this subject. But when you talk to your vet they will tell you that it's always best to neuter as soon as you can. usually at 4-5 months of age. height and growing all has to do with the breed line, nothing with neutering. The only thing that may change with neutering (apperance wise) will be the weight. A lot of times after neutering the puppy may gain weight because his hormone level will decrease. That can easily be fixed with diet and exercise change. His temperment may change but nothing serious.Usually becomes more mild mannered. Dogs that are neutered also have less of a chance at developing certain cancers ( such as testicular) and studies show neutered dogs have less temperment problems then intact dogs. good luck though.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

What's your opinion on this?

Hello, I am fourteen years of age and I have Multiple Personality Disorder, ADHD, anorexia, and clinical depression. My parent's have taken me to tons of different doctors, and the Seattle Washington Hospital just basically said "He's clinically insane." I can't concentrate, and I always have suicide on my mind but I'm too scared of death to actually do it. I tried smoking marijuana and it gave me my apatite, usually I get a stomach ache if I eat so I don't eat for days at a time. It also calms me down so I don't think so deep into things and I feel more in control of my mind. I'm prescribed an amphetamine by doctors that is supposed to help but all it does is makes me high and takes away my apatite even more. I mean, sure it makes me feel good but marijuana helps in so many more ways than the amphetamine does. My parent's don't approve of me smoking it, and I know it's illegal.. Can I just get your opinion on the situation? I really appreciate it (:

Is this a good probable cause for a police?

Ok so me and 3 other body(3 of us freshman and 1 sophmore) got out of school. it was exams and it was 3rd to last day of school. We were all exempt from exams so we wern't allowed to come to school so we dont mess with the other testing kids. we were going to go hit the ganja. and please dont judge me, all 4 of us are A,B honor students. well we were leaving an alley and none of us were high. 2 of us had bookbags and 3 of us had marijuana. A police car pulls over and two men step out of the car. this is were i **** my pants. but the dick police guy ask to search the non marijuana carrier kids book bag. the kid ask what was his probable cause and the police said because he was acting nervous and because he had a bookbag. so the police pulls him over to the car and from were he was, we couldnt see him. well turns out he had a bamboo bong that was slightly used and a grinder slightly used. while the miget cop asked the 3 of us our information. they did search my bookbag but i had nothing in it, everything was in my pocket. well they called the searched bookbag kid's parents. and when they got there they took him home and he didnt get charged with anything. The dick cop came to us and asked us if we had any marijuana, and the dumb stoner of the group gave him a joint. the other kid game him a bowl and a 1g bag. and i gave him a packed bowl. The three of us were mad eto put our hands on the car and they emptied our pockets onto the car and they did the full search, the crouch grab and all, and they wernt nice at all except the new cop guy. we got taken down town and were charged to take substence testing and to serve this diversion thing. when i told my dad all this he thought it wasnt a good probable cause and he thinks the cop was taking advantage of us being kids. and while we were put in these small enclosed alarmed juvi rooms the cops were outside the room joking and laughing making jokes. my dad also thinks that the kid that was let go was only let go becuase the cops were afraid to be sued because of their bad probable cause reason, even though he had a used bong and grinder. and my dad is not stupid he is a 49 yr old hippie, he knows his stuff. my question is, do any of u think this is a good probable cause and what should I do.

Reoccurring dream....what does it mean? I've had it for the last 4 months and have it up to 6 times a week?

I'm standing on a beach with pure white sand. I can hear the waves but they're muted. All of a sudden I'm in a white dress and I turn away from the sea and can see my whole family and friends stood there, but they're all fuzzy, like a badly taken picture. Next there's a loud buzzing noise and they're all fading away. The sea gets wilder and yet the volume is turned down. The sky is red and orange and purple. I feel afraid. I realise that I am on my own. I can't hear anything and I can't move. I feel enclosed and suffocated. The sea gets wilder again and I hear a really beautiful singing voice, but it's singing of something very familiar, I just can't figure out what it is. The fear increases. I still can't move. The waters suddenly lay still and a figure rises from the wild sea. And before I can have a look at the face properly, I wake up. There is always a sense of urgency to my dream, like I need to figure it out but I can't.

If you could bring back one retired or dead wrestler to WWE who would it be and why?

Personally I would bring back Eddie Guerrero, or else Chris Benoit. Both men did a lot for the business and their WM XX wins and celebrations will forever be remembered. However, even though both guys won their titles at WM XX they were pushed down the pecking order again, with Eddie going back to mid-card and Benoit playing a supporting role in the HHH-Eugene storyline. Therefore I would bring both of these guys and have them stay on the top where they belonged.

What's wrong with me? Depression?

I wouldn't rule out aspergers or autism. Here's a quiz I've personally taken. If you rate high you might want to talk to a counselor about it. a href="http://www.rdos.net/eng/Aspie-quiz.php" rel="nofollow"http://www.rdos.net/eng/Aspie-quiz.php/a

What can i do about eating?

my mom used to cook every night almost. now because she gets home about 7, she never cooks because shes tired. therefore, i either have to eat a frozen meal or cereal or i just dont eat. my parents hardly ever get take out anywhere cuz they say theyre broke. i understand my moms tired but i need to eat. and i can cook but we hardly have good enough food in the house

How bad is getting your tonsils out?

After getting them taking out the recovery could take from 2 to 3 weeks. The recovery acually gets worst as the days go by. The more time that goes by the more it will begin to hurt. Make sure to eat popsicles and ice cream.

Motorcycle for a beginner?

Take a look at a 250cc Virago. They give exclent gas mileage, cruiser style. Handles great in town or on the road.

Trailer signal light not working?

Hey, just bought a 6x10 enclosed trailer. And i noticed when my left signal light is on, the light stays on solid instead of blinking. What could be causing this? Thanks in advance!

My depressing thoughts are confusing & scaring me?

I was recently diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder (Clinically Depressed) I'm 13 & I just got out of the hospital June 20th because I kept threatening that I would kill myself so my parents took me to a "mental hospital".. it helped. The therapy there helped. I also now have my own therapist that i only recently started seeing. My suicidal thoughts have decreased (I'm on Celexa for medication btw) but I still have those thoughts.. & they just make me wanna cry.. I used to cut myself.. my parents knew too.. & I stopped.. I gave what I used to my parents but I still have thoughts and urges to do it.. I never ever thought I would end up in a place like this.. where I was just so un happy.. The medication is helping but I still have all these violent thoughts & their scaring me.. I don't feel like I will kill myself or anything.. it's not that serious but idk what to do now.. I don't even know wtf Major Depressive Disorder is!!

How to feed a seven month old baby?

At 7 months old she needs plenty of formula. Formula should be her primary source of nutrition. You can give her as much or as little solids as you like as long as its not interfering with her formula. Solids really do not matter at this point, its just practice with textures at this point.

My friend cuts PLEASE HELP!!!!!?

Well if u feel your friend is in serious danger then u should tell someone who might could help her like someone she confides in that doesn't cut or maybe a crisis line. I had a friend who cut also but she wasn't suicidal, it was her way of releasing her "pain" as she put it. She has passed away now but not from suicide but there really wasn't anything I could do 2 help her. Cutting is as natural 2 people like herself as crying when really sad is 2 others. It's a compulsion. I doubt very seriously that she is actually suicidal though. Even if she is clinically depressed. As long as she is hanging around another cutter though she will continue 2 do it that much more. I would find someone u can talk 2 about it that wouldn't automatically jump 2 conclusions. If she is a minor then I would inform an adult about it like maybe her parents. If u are afraid that she might actually be wanting 2 kill herself then u really should tell someone because even if she gets mad, u could save her life n that will make u a true friend 2 her, once she gets help 4 her depression then she will realize that u were only trying 2 help her n maybe will want 2 mend the friendship. I wish u all the best of luck with helping her. I know what its like 2 try n help a friend who is a cutter.

Why won't women date me?

I'm a 35 year old guy. I'm white. I'm fat and out of shape, not to mention lazy. Also I collect disability and smoke medicinal pot due to my disabilities during service (I am a veteran). I make about $47,000. I am clinically depressed and diagnosed with it and have to take prescription meds. Other than that I have to pay for sex all the time. Why can't I get it for free? I mean, why doesn't anyone like the fact that I'm a veteran who served and sacrificed something for this country?

Abused 18 year old needs help leaving home?

Have her apply to fo to college, she can get financial aid and she has to has access to her birth certificate and social security card so in turn she will be able to get an id and then she can start moving out of the house, if she isn't allowed to have access to her information she is an adult and she can go to the authorities. It would look so bad on her parents if they were withholding information, esp, if she was trying to go to school. I hope this helps!

What is the cure for brain stem clot?

my mother has been in a stroke for pass 1 wk now. shes in the icu and been given heparin and aspirin. I was just wondering what are other available medications or treatment for such hey clot? they were first suggesting an intravascular something procedure which lets a small tube in the artery. something like that. but they soon dismissed the procedure for they said the clots are under the brain stem.or was i just so skeptical of their agenda,someone said she heard our doctor scolded the nurse saying you should blah blah blah"if it wasnt for me the patient would not b admitted here" which implies its only a matter of money.now im skeptical that there are other possible and effective procedures but they are avoiding it because they know they could earn much more if they have my mother admitted in the icu rather than having her treated the right way but shorter time.what are the other possible and accepted procedure for such clotting they also they told us they could not do anything anymore about the clot. the doctor said they can only control the clot so not to increase or do more but the clot could never be taken away? is this true? or is it acceptable for them to say such thing? i read about the penumbra and the opium with the armica montana are they clinically accepted? iss warfarin more potent than aspirin? pls need badly

Were Mexican fans disrespectful to the American anthem in the Gold Cup Final?

wow thats nothing compared to what goes on in europe, you see in europe every country hates each other so the level of violence and disgust is times 100 hahaha

[PS3]My Nba 2k11 disk keeps freezing at the "Press Start to Continue" page?

Same thing is happening to me. I have a ps3. If you sign out from psn and play, it works. First sign out then start the game. Don't sign back in while playing.

Am I starting to hear voices inside my head?

I went through the same problem ,all you can do is tell your psychiatrist and he can get you the help that you need ie: medication and such.

In California is police allowed to ask your country of origin, and then be sarcastic about your country?

You can still press charges against him get a lawyer make these police shut their mouths. Your words mean nothing compared when a lawyer is going to handle your case. Believe me they picked on you because they know you aren't going to do anything. People with authority and are so inconsiderate should be taught a lesson. Like you said their were witnesses but that's no good unless you have names other than that get a lawyer if you insist on teaching the police offers a lesson and advice.

Is this sentence right?

What does "this" refer to? I see __________ will be an intellectually stimulating and rewarding experience.

I need some advice...?

Hi Ellie: you sound like you're young -- a teen or young adult -- so I hope you'll believe people if they tell you that such feelings are perfectly normal at your age. We've all experienced them. There are so many physical and emotional changes going on in your body that you can think you've got every mental illness in the book. Try just being a friend to others who might feel lonely. It will help you develop while bringing happiness into others' lives. And if you ever feel completely at the end of your rope, reach out to a doctor, a counselor, or clergy member you trust.

How do you describe three simultaneous character reactions?

____ stood up, causing everyone around him to move away a few (insert distance here Ex: seats, steps, paces, tiles, whatever) .____ drew his blade, but quickly returned it at the thought of (insert personal fear here) .____ recoiled in fear, staring at the others as though (bla bla).

3 Tamil Brahmin and Congress woes!!!!!Is that a ao-incidence?

Agree with u..An important thing is they are honest and uncorrupt. I have always been happy and proud of being a Tamil brahmin.

Quadratic word problems?

A rectangular field is to be enclosed and then have four additional fences built parallel to one side. If 600m of fencing are available, find the dimensions of the largest such field. The answer is 150m x 60m but i want to know how to get that answer. Thanks.

Why can I not save a Playstation game when playing it on my PS2?

I recently got a PS2 and was trying to play an original Playstation game on it (Spyro). I can play the game just fine, but it does not recognize the memory card and therefore will not save the game. The machine recognizes the memory card just fine, only the game seems to have an issue with it.

Can you answer a question more then once in yahoo answers?

My answer was too long so I had to make it a 2 parter. I couldnt see anywhere to answer the question again. Therefore, is doing this possible?

Is the grammar in this letter correct? I am more concerned about the "roll out the red carpet".?

I hope that we will have the opportunity to roll out the red carpet for your conference participants.

As an Asian-looking son of a White dad and Asian mom should I be angry at them for emasculating all Asian men?

at first i thought it was only black/white mixed people who were crazy now i think its all biracials who have issues

Need help with my life?

Hey everyone. I am a 19 year old guy and I have attraction to guys and sometimes girls, but I only see myself in a relationship with a guy. Am I gay or bi? Problem is, I am closeted to everyone and if my parents know I like guys, they would for sure kick me out. I know for a fact no one in my family would accept me, as they call me ******, make fun of me for never having a girlfriend etc. I love my family, but it kills me when they make fun of homosexuals because I would love for them to love me for who I am, but it will never happen. I believe I am clinically depressed because I have all the signs of it.. such as nail and finger biting, feeling lonely, crying often etc. I tend to fall for many different guys, but there is this one guy I have fallen for so hard, I'm still trying to get over him for over a year. It's hurts me emotionally because I have never opened up to anyone because I feel so trapped in my own skin all the time. I would love to have a happy relationship, one that my family and friends would accept my partner being together, and get together during holidays, family get togethers etc, but I never see that happening. My brother often has his girlfriend over and she is like family to us, but it breaks my heart knowing I will never have that oppurtunity. Basically, I am begging for help in what I should do, because I feel like this feeling "trapped" feeling is only getting worse and worse.

Monday, July 18, 2011

Need help with my life..?

Hey everyone. I am a 19 year old guy and I have attraction to guys and sometimes girls, but I only see myself in a relationship with a guy. Am I gay or bi? Problem is, I am closeted to everyone and if my parents know I like guys, they would for sure kick me out. I know for a fact no one in my family would accept me, as they call me ******, make fun of me for never having a girlfriend etc. I love my family, but it kills me when they make fun of homosexuals because I would love for them to love me for who I am, but it will never happen. I believe I am clinically depressed because I have all the signs of it.. such as nail and finger biting, feeling lonely, crying often etc. I tend to fall for many different guys, but there is this one guy I have fallen for so hard, I'm still trying to get over him for over a year. It's hurts me emotionally because I have never opened up to anyone because I feel so trapped in my own skin all the time. I would love to have a happy relationship, one that my family and friends would accept my partner being together, and get together during holidays, family get togethers etc, but I never see that happening. My brother often has his girlfriend over and she is like family to us, but it breaks my heart knowing I will never have that oppurtunity. Basically, I am begging for help in what I should do, because I feel like this feeling "trapped" feeling is only getting worse and worse.

No baby shower for first time mom?

Hey all. My husband and I are expecting our first child, but unfortunately both his and my family live several states away. They are going to be there for the birth, but I've decided not to throw a shower so they won't feel pressured into coming into town twice. Is it inappropriate to send out some type of baby announcements with registry info enclosed? If so, should I send out the announcements maybe 2-3 weeks before the due date?

How to explain to friends about depression and chronic fatigue?

I was diagnosed at 16 with bi-polar depression. My fiends also thought that I was just looking for an excuse to miss school and that all it would take is some old-fashioned cheering up. It was hard to explain that I needed to be on medication. What I finally did was find some websites that I felt explained what I was going through the best. Medical sites that explained what bi-polar depression really was. That I wasn't just sad and mad at the world, that I felt this way for no reason other than a chemical imbalance in my brain. That it wasn't my fault. So what I'm saying, is search around on medical sites until you find one that explains it like your doctor would explain it. In such a way that YOU feel it covers everything you want your friends to know, and then show the site to them or give them the URL at school. After that, if they still think the whole thing isn't a big deal and they still think you're just skipping school or being moody, then they aren't really your friends at all. Also, try finding websites with networks that allow you to chat with other people dealing with the same thing and it will help you find the best way to talk about it in real life. I hope this helps, good luck! :)

How to lose 10kg (22lbs) in 6 weeks?

I have really been struggling myself with my weight and would love to be 10kgs (22lbs) lighter. PLEASE HELP! It's the main reason I have been diagnosed as clinically depressed. Every answer is appreciated. Thankyou

Shaking uncontrollably?

So I went home today, and took a nap for about two hours. It was sunny outside, the temperature at my house is normal, and I was wrapped up in a blanket. However, I was shaking uncontrollably upon my waking up. My teeth were chattering, my hands were so shaky, and my heart was beating very fast. This wouldn't go away until an hour after I woke up. I know I'm not sick with a fever, because of course I've had it before, but my heart didn't spazz out and my hands weren't shaking like they were today. I was scared, this has never happened before. I googled it, and some answers said that it was a response to stress, or I had an anxiety attack. I don't know what exactly this experience was, or if I should tell someone in my family about it.. (My sister's a nurse). This is the second time it's happened, but the first time wasn't this bad. I have indeed been stressed out lately, because my friend attempted suicide, and I've had two nervous break downs within the last 3 months, so that makes me think that this could be an anxiety attack, but I'm really not sure. (The last thing I thought about before falling asleep was if my friend was okay). I also think I'm clinically depressed, but my parents refuse to admit that there's something wrong with me. I took online tests for it, and they all come out as severe clinical depression. I don't know. ): what do you think happened, and what should I do?

How do I get emotionally exited?

I'm looking for the steps to emotionally show others exitement in an instance where exitement is applicable. My Dad says I have a problem because I don't show exitement with anything, and that generally I don't really show any emotions. My reasons are because of stress brought on by school and family issues that take up a lot of my time and energy. Clinically I would prescribe myself as being slightly depressed, but mentally sane. I have reasons for my depression, and I don't really show others I'm depressed, I act normal around people, and my friends. I still can have a good time around people, and I act with normal emotions around people EXCEPT when showing exitement. Why is this, and what are the steps to solve the inability to show exitement around people?

Libs, how many of you have secretly bought a case of "Rush Revere's" tea since it came out?

You asked this last night...I think this is a sign I have been spending too much time on here lately.

How can I get get a demo together?

I am an aspiring songwriter- I create lyrics and melody, but I don't play an instrument and I suck at making beats to go along with my songs. I can sing, not a Beyonce, more along the lines of Norah Jones. Anyway, I feel like my talent is being wasted because I don't play an instrument and therefore can't put a demo together. I was going to a so called producer, but he completely twisted my music into something he wanted rather than what I was trying to create. I feel so frustrated. I heard that in todays music world you have to submit a demo that is basically "professional" in order to even stand a chance. So my question is how can someone like me get a demo if I don't play an instrument and don't have music to accompany my songs? Please I need some guidance from someone with music industry experience or knowledge. Thanks for all advice!

Studying a different course at university?

hi, i am interested in knowing if it is possible to study a different course at university, to the one which you studied at college. for example, i did a B-TEC national diploma in ICT at college (and passed, therefore amassing a lot of UCAS points), but would like to study a journalism course at university. so, lads, is it possible to study a course at university that is entirely different to the one which is studied at college? and if not, how would i go about studying journalism?

The row house was a new type of housing that conserved space by?

3. The shared side wall was a real pain as you could hear just about everything your neighbors did, even flushing the toilet.!

I self harm and I don't want to harm anyone else.?

just say hey so and so so i was wonderin if i could tell you something really imporant and a little scary about me will you still b my friend no matter what then tell her whats goin on

This wiill TRULY make you believe?

All of which you have stated can be applied to Christians since they are the ones who use logical fallacies

As an Asian-looking son of a White dad and Asian mom should I be angry at them for emasculating all Asian men?

You need not to worry about what your Parents did. Shame on you for Saying it is a curse to be born out of an Asian women's Vagina. Is there no shame to you at all?? You ought to give thanks that she didn't abort your ungrateful azz. Your spending too much time worrying about something that has already happened. Worry about your education and your own life. You know when you point a degrading finger at Your Parents there are three fingers pointing back at you. Your an ungrateful wretch to degrade your White Father. I hope he kicks you along side of the gravel road.

Obesity VS Smokers.....what is your view?

Personally, I think that both issues should be addressed thoroughly by the US Government. I believe that smoking should really be banned, and have that ban be enforced strongly, because the consequences of smoking tobacco can be SO widespread. There's several horrible things that can happen like Lung Cancer obviously, as well as Oral Cancer, etc. However, obesity has just as severe an effect on the human body. It brings many disorders, mainly within the heart. I understand that the nicotine inside this tobacco is literally addicting, but it doesn't give somebody the right to just say "Hey, it's not my fault. It's addictive" but the thing is, anybody can quit, anytime. Similar to that, most obese people have eating disorders, therefore they are addicted to food. The US Health Department should take serious effort into helping every single food addict out there, as well as cigarette addicts. Both addictions bring such bad things into your life, but everybody should be treated the same. Just because people have addictions, doesn't mean they should be spoken down to. Both types of addicts should do something about their addiction, but should not be treated different from each other, as well as the rest of the people.

My Mac Book Pro won't let me drag anything?!?

For some reason all of a sudden one day my trackpad won't let me drag things around to the desktop or anywhere else. Therefore, it won't let me highlight or anything!! I've had the Mac book Pro for a year and a half and have no idea how to fix this problem. It won't even let me make programs smaller or larger because I can't drag!! please tell me how to fix this!!

What trips can you go on at 18?

my boyfriend and I want to go on a senior trip in july but we are 18 therefore we can really get hotels or rent an RV or anything...we want to avoid camping if at all possible.

Are you really pro life?

Not trying to lead this into a whole pro life, pro choice "thing". Are you REALLY pro life? Do you eat meat? Do you believe in the death penalty? Do you believe in war? Do you think Casey Anthony and Andrea Yates should be killed for murdering their babies? If you answered yes to any of these questions you aren't pro life, your against abortion. There's a difference. Animals are alive, they have a life. Criminals are alive.Terrorists are alive. Casey and Andrea are alive. Therefore, if you are truly pro life, you feel that animals, people and fetus's have the same right to live.

Did you know:A teenage girl shot her dad with an arrow after he took away her cell phone!?

No. All that I ever hear about that is allover the news is about parents who disapproved of their daughter boyfriend and the daughter kill her parents. Like the 16 year old in Texas. How come everyone kept talking about how shes spoiled and but not this one?

Have I been paid correctly?

All pay stubs have the dates of work that you are being paid for listed. Read the pay stub. You were probably paid for the month of December on the January check.

Who is the one person you want to??

1, myself 2. I would like to punch anyone working at NASA for faking moon landings 3. I would like to shake hands with Steven Tyler of Aerosmith for defining what rock really is. And I would like to spend my time in an enclosed space with Aaron Goodwin from Ghost Adventures.He's HHOOTT!!!

Is it okay to vent a sealed sub box yourself?

I have a 12" kicker comp woofer in a completely enclosed (sealed) sub box and I want to manually cut out a vent hole on one side to release air and get more bass (in my small car). I know that the comp woofers aren't deep to begin with but the box I have it in is about 1 1/2' deep so I got room to work with. Any reasons why this wouldnt be smart?

Are there statistics available for lifetime cancer rates of nuclear sub crew members?

I've done some basic on-line searches but haven't found anything. I'd be interested to know this as a lay person trying to make sense of the ongoing debates about nuclear power. It seems to me that crew members on nuclear subs spend months at a time in a small enclosed space with a reactor close by, so comparing their cancer rates with those of the general population would have to say a lot about whether radiation risks associated with nuclear power are manageable with current technology. Surely someone has studied this? Anyone have a link?

Who does it sound like is in the wrong, me or her?

Before, I had been a doormat to another girl who never even cared about me for about three years and she finally let me have it and told me she didn't want me around. I did community theater a lot and during a summer show I wanted to be bffs with the girl I met in the play I did before it. There were a bunch of other girls hanging out with us in one group and I told one of the girls in the group, one of my best friends, to try and distract them the rest of the summer so I could have the girl to myself. But then right when I least expected it, I met this new girl I had never seen before. She was so...weird. I had never met anyone like her before. I got closer and closer with her over the summer and we really hit it off. At the cast party, she gave me her email and phone number. About a week or two later I decided to call her and we started hanging out. We went to see a play at the theater and she brought my ex without even telling me. I was mad but I got over it. Then soon he started dating that same girl and she started hanging out with him instead of me. I smoothed things over with him and got him to tell me that he actually cheated on her and blowed 39 guys on a day out for his birthday. I told her what he did and she actually came back to me for a while, but then when the summer production came around by the third week of rehearsals she was completely ignoring me for him, regardless of what I told her. And she replaced me with this one girl who's dad owns this golf resort because her mom liked this girl better than she did me and her mom never approved of me. It made me really sad and I just kind of kept to herself and then her mom called my mom saying I was clinically depressed and had tons of issues. I gave it a while and then I started going to her dancing lessons, she was really sweet and for a while we got close again and we were back. But after I started going dancing with her for a while she started talking to these two twin girls and blowing me off completely. I brought her candy one time and she just kind of shrugged at me and gave me the cold shoulder even though I didn't do anything wrong and the whole time she was dancing with these girls and laughing and smiling and it was like I didn't even exist. After that I never went back there. I gave it a few months. I tried to comment on her facebook post. She continued to ignore me. Then when she finally responded out of my frustration I said shut up I don't even want to talk to you. Then her sister was like please explain your comment I don't understand it. I said if I don't want to talk to her then why would I want to talk to you. Then they both blocked me on facebook. I gave it about three months then I called and her sister answered. I said is your sister home, she said no, I said why did you both block me on facebook, she said sweetie what you said was really rude here let me try it on you, I don't want to talk to you right now, then she hung up. They are so mean and evil and I hate them I want revenge and they need to be put in their place, should I go back and tell her off at her dancing lessons or call her and tell her off?

I have a short temper and need help asap!?

My short temper is horrible! I always want to cry, hit something or someone, I take it out on the world. My parents hate it, &I'm driving people away. Biggest current issue is babysitting. The boys are great but one, 10 year old, is clinically bipolar &when he has an out burst I can usually put up with it but today I'm losing it. I know its not his fault but I don't know how to calm down because I always let him off and today is just not one of those days! I'm ignoring all of them because of him and its not right but if I go out of the room and see him I'm going to anger up quickly again. I need quick help.

Christians: Unforgivable sin question?

I think that the unforgivable sin is deliberately accusing the Holy Spirit of being Satan or a demon, when a person knows that He is not. Now if someone desires to be saved and know God, that shows that they have not committed the unforgivable sin, because if they had they wouldn't care if they were saved or not.

Am I depressed or just sad all the time?

I am always sad. Like sure, I do have some occasions where I can get happy and laugh, but most of the time I am sad. Mainly at school. I feel so ugly, and unwanted, and weird. Nobody likes my personality! I always try to be nice and I don't think I am ever mean. My hair is horrible but anyway. My life is probably awesome, but I hate it so much. I don't cut myself or anything but I just feel so sad! I am 12-13 btw. I have lost all my friends, all my good ones anyway, and I'm so sick of being judged and having to think about fashion and beauty before I walk out the door! And how ugly I am! But I just feel so sad! Like I can't explain, how miserable I feel. I feel fat too! Am I depressed? Clinically? Or unclinically? Or am I just 'always sad/unhappy'?

How can i make my ex bf become my friend again?

im clinically depressed right now.ive been so lonely since the day he broke up with me.my life stopped .i do bad things to myself.i might die soon.i know no one can help me get better but my ex.i want him back but i know he doesnt love me anymore so i just need him to be my friend.when he left me i dont have any motivation to live and if hell comeback to my life id be happy again.but i dont have contact with him anymore.he blocked me on fb and i dont see him around anymore.we dont have any mutual friends.how can i make this possible?im tired of waiting.

How long should I give my girlfriend space. Please need honest help!?

So basically my girlfriend 2 weeks ago told me to not call, text, email, send her anything or engage any physical contact with her. The reason being is because about 3 weeks ago she broke the news to me out of the blue that she would not be able to take her schooling in my province and would have to take it in another one (about 10 hours driving distance from me). I didn't say much at first just saying it was alright, cause it didn't really hit me. The next day I got upset and when me saw each other she could tell and asked me to try and not be upset about it and not worry about it until the time comes, I even told her I couldn't promise her that. She told me also that she knew this for quite some time, but she led me on to believe that she would be taking her schooling here. So many things were going through my head as to why she would do that and I couldn't think straight. This plus other multiple things going on in my life prior to this in the past couple months made me clinically depressed and I had to go onto medication. So without thinking one morning I sent her an email that I regret and can even go to say it was one of the stupidest things I have ever done in my life, by pushing away someone that I loved and cherished so dearly in my life. I basically said I can't take all this stress anymore, I don't feel loved by anyone or anything and I don't want her to have to deal with me being this way and if she wanted to we could be over. I stated though that I wasn't breaking up, just didn't want her to see me this way. After a few hours I even knew this was a bad idea and tried retracting it, but it was to late. I knew it was ignorant of me cause she just lost her grandmother 2 weeks prior this and she meant the world to her. She emailed me back saying how selfish I was being and that if we were over to never make any contact with her again. I ended up calling her that night and apologized telling her how stupid and selfish I was being and how much I regretted it. She then told me she needed time to deal with all the stress and to give her space and to not make any contact whatsoever with her. It's been 2 weeks now. How long is too long, I mean is there any point in time where I should give up, I want to somehow tell her I'd be there for her anytime in her life regardless of what decision she made about me. However, I feel like this may not be the optimal thing to do. Any help will be appreciated.

Babysitting question? Please Help!?

I agree that you are in no proper frame of mind to be caring for any 20 month old, be grateful it isn't yours, and you should dump that responsibility right back on your sister where it belongs. Mental health problems make it very difficult to make decisions and act on them in the way that is necessary to assure the safety of a child that age. What energy you have you need in order to find and do a job that pays a decent wage. That is your right. Your mother went way over the line committing you to be the unpaid slave to your sister's kid. You will simply have to tell them both that you may occassionally be available, with advance notice, to sit for the baby but you will be interviewing and pursuing a better job and you must have control of your life and be able to make and keep appointments for that purpose. Do not take no for an answer. They may be pissed at you but if you let them continue to use and abuse you will have no life at all except in a mental health ward.

Can using my laptop outside mess up my speakers?

This spring, I had been using my laptop (Del XPS M1710) outisde a lot. I have a deck in which the portion below it is enclosed (with the deck as a roof, and big thick-plastic screens as the walls) there are ceiling fans in the enclosed area. I like to smoke my hookah out here with my laptop. I haven't really actually had it in the "real" outdoors. One day I was smoking, and took the coals off of my pipe to go inside for lunch. I was inside for a couple of hours and it had started raining. It was not wet inside the enclosed area when I returned, but I had left my laptop there. No problems. The same thing happened to me a few times over the spring, and I had no problems with my computer. Over the past couple of weeks, though, I have noticed my speakers have gone to crap and are being really really fuzzy and crackly, even at low volumes. It is virtually impossible to listen to music or enjoy videos on it now. I am wondering if the humidity from the few times it rained has damaged my speakers? Is this possible? Also how can I go about replacing the speakers without going through the manufacturer? I have no warranty and do not mind voiding any warranty I might have had in order to replace them myself.

Do you believe the government has something to gain from the prescription drug industry?

Are you Canadian, because you asked in Canada? Canada is worse than the US. Because the government makes the bulk of the drug buying decisions, they are far more easily influenced. Why sell to the public, when you can bribe one government official. As for the US, lobby groups spend huge amount of money to find ways to encourage drug use. Most government officials aren't educated enough so they go along, and they are influenced by Pharmaceutical money to look favorably to them. THe worse is California and how it treats Medical Marijuana. Everyone knows most of the pot sold is to feed addictions. It is ridiculous the type of medical problems is being passed off as needing Marijuana. AS for Doctors never suggesting alternative medicine, tehy do. My doctor hates me, because I question all drug prescription. THey are giving me holistic medicine for my allergies, but part of the reason is that they sell it in their office. THe funny thing is that some of the holistic drugs, are actually based on real science, but the comapny finds hollistic medicine as a way around the FDA. It's sad though, because some of the Hollistic medicine works better then antibiotics. And yet we over use antibiotics, because it's in the best interest of pharmaceuticals.

Trouble with quadratic word problem?

A rectangular field is to be enclosed by 800m of fencing. What dimensions will give the maximum area? What is the maximum area?

Question about 501c3?

Hi all, I am the VP for our HS Band Boosters. We would like to do a year long raffle where you can win things such as a new TV, tickets to a sporting event, gift cards, etc. We would like to have the prizes donated so that we have no real expenses. Now when I went to the Detroit Tigers website donation page, it said something about needing to enclose a letter about your 501c3 status. We do have a tax exempt ID number but we do not have 501c3 status. Do you know if having a tax exempt ID number would work to get donations. We did think about going through the school district but they are not 501c3 either.

I want nothing to do with my ex boyfriend. his behavior is totally unacceptable. why can't he take a hint?

Couple things here... First you sound young, but very smart. Second, you are pretty independent and wont put up with any guys shee-it, so thats great. You are on the right path. And when I read that princess bull shee it, I was upset FOR you, thinkin, this girl is right! But then I thought to be fair, do girls write stuff on a guy friends' wall that may be like "hey sweetie!" And could it be innocent??? And my answer is yes. I think that if you had told your bf and said very simply "You should only use endearing names with ME...." and then said "goodnight" and walked away from him, he would get the message loud & CLEAR... If you really do care about him, and truly believe he feels for you, then I would LET HIM talk to you on his next attempt. You have made your point, and he gets the point. Dont throw the "baby out with the bathwater" as they say. Also, it sure is RUDE to hear those cutesy names, but that is NOT cheating...Cheating will ruin peoples lives. This was rude and annoying by him, but it certainly won't ruin your life... Good luck! :)

I need to pay for college; what is the best loan option for my situation, and how do I get it?

You should start by filing your FAFSA form. This will allow you to receive federal loans such as the Unsubsidized and Subsidized Stafford loans. This can also qualify you for other federal grants and loans. You can apply online, directly through FAFSA on the Web, the Department of Education's FAFSA site. If you don't receive enough aid through the government to cover all of your expenses, you could then apply for a private loan through a bank.

Battlefield squad members needed.?

My friend and I are tired of playing with randoms that don't talk and don't use teamwork. We are looking to create a squad in Battlefield: Bad Company 2 and the upcoming, highly anticipated Battlefield 3. My most-used kit is the Engineer, and my friend enjoys Recon. Therefore, an Assault and Medic would be preferable to another of the two we already have. You don't need to be great at the game, we only require your ability to work as a team and support your squad mates (headset recommended) . If you would like to be a part of this squad, please post your Playstation Network ID. Thank you.

Has Atari given up entirely on creating an update for the massive problems with Test Drive Unlimited 2?

It's an amazing game and therefore I try and be very patient but it's been months and months now this is ridiculous. Does anybody know when I can expect an update to fix some of the problems most importantly the roulette wheel which was one of the main reasons I purchased the casino expansion or in the very least sell that stupid pink Mustang I unwittingly acquired?

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Why does my cat destroy my house everyday.?

Every morning I wake up My cat has destroyed my house... he is wiping is butt on my carpet. chewing the cords clawing anywhere he can get a grip.. His water bowl is always knocked completely over litter all over the floor and I have a enclosed litter box..... So how can I calm him down he is reckless....

How to approach an older co-worker about...?

I have this co-worker, she is a pain in the butt to everyone. She could probably be considered clinically O.C.D., and enforces this problem on everyone else. No matter how perfectly clean the building is, she and her husband (who do does not work here) will come in before everyone in the morning (she happens to have a key) and re-clean everything in the building. Then complain to the owner about what terrible people the rest of us are. The owner knows what she is like, and how she drives the rest of us nuts, but doesn't want to 'rock the boat'. If I approach the owner about it, she will ask me to take care of it. If I talk to said person about it, she gets very defensive, will tell the owner how upset this makes her and then the owner will just agree with her and not back me up at all. How else can I handle this? This person is 30yrs older than me. The reason this is a problem is because this is a massage clinic and her 'cleaning' includes stripping all the tables of their (already clean) pads, blankets, sheets, headrest covers. This is a total waste of resources, and time. Thoughts?

Is it safe to leave Guinea pigs out on your lawn to feed?

Hi All, My children have three Guinea pigs which are kept in a large hutch in the garden. Lately, I have been letting them out of the hutch to run around on the lawn (which is enclosed). I feel sorry for them being inside a hutch all the time and they love being out on the garden eating grass. I have a cat and he just lies down by them or walks past. There are other cats in the area tho. What i'd like to know is do you think it's possible for a cat to kill or hurt an adult Guinea pig? The Guinea pigs are quite big and they also have an Impressive set of front teeth! Once they are out on the garden, I sometimes leave them unattended for short periods of time. Anyone had a Guinea pig attacked by a domestic cat before?

Lump on the bottom of my back?

I went to the doctors around 5 months ago with a small lump on the bottom left hand side of my back. My doctor said it was possibly a small lipoma and ordered an ultrasound and a possible fine needle biopsy if the radiologist doing the ultrasound thought it was necessary. The radiologist said he couldn't find anything on the ultrasound, and this, combined with it being so small said it was almost certainly nothing and opted to not bother doing the fine needle aspiration. The way I understood it, due to the lump being small the results would be inconclusive and they wouldn't get enough cells from the biopsy to make a diagnosis. The radiologist suggested I go back if it started to clinically grow, he wrote up his notes and passed them on to my doctor. My original doctor who referred me for the ultrasound read the notes and got back to me a week later. He said he agreed with the radiologist's diagnosis and if it clinically grew to go back and they would do an mri. Now 5 months later I feel like the lump has grow, not majorly so but enough to make me a little anxious about it. Is going back warranted? What does clinically grow mean? I don't want the doctor to think im a hypochondriac but im a little concerned. Im going back tomorrow, what are the main questions to ask because I would like to get to know what it is. Thanks

Don't you think my ex boyfriend is a lying, cheating scumbag. Idk why he's begging to come back?

Well, judging by the way you type, I am going to guess that you are about 16 years old, and none of this will matter in a months time anyway. So don't worry about it.

I keep making other peoples issues about me.?

Why is it your job to be everyone's cheerleader? Your fat friend obviously is using your compassion against you. Stop allowing her and everyone else to manipulate you and your feelings. She ate her way up to being fat, it's her responsibility to lose the weight, not yours. When she loses 25 pounds THEN compliment her. But YOU ARE NOT THE WORLD'S NURSEMAID! It's as simple as that.

Calc word problem need help?

Farmer Jones, and his wife, Dr. Jones, decide to build a fence in their field, to keep the sheep safe. Since Dr. Jones is a mathematician, she suggests building fences described by y = 10 x^2 and y = x^2 + 6. Farmer Jones thinks this would be much harder than just building an enclosure with straight sides, but he wants to please his wife. What is the area of the enclosed region?

Can a person "swim" at zero gravity - in a spaceship?

It is cool to see astronauts "floating" around in space in their spaceships. I am wondering if a swimmer, like Michael Phelps, can "swim" (the breaststroke) in the spaceship. Would it be great if we could line 8 swimmers in an enclosed arena (50m by 30m by 30m), at zero gravity, and let them compete like they do at the Olympics!

What does it mean when I don't dream?

I never get dreams. Is this normal or healthy? However I do day dream in one I was being eaten by a spider& in another I was in an enclosed space with nails coming at me. But i didn't find these day dreams scary at all. Any thought?

Could you give some feedback on the idea for the story of my rock opera/concept album?

Overall it sounds good. However, when it comes to Astra and Johnny, the songs should be... not mutually exclusive, but focusing on one persona or the other, with a different style of music associated with each. It would help the listener to understand.

Do atheists know the difference between evidence and logical proofs?

We're fighting a war for truth here, and the best defence is a good offense. And we don't have to provide evidence, ever. We're not claiming anything. You're the ones who are saying there's a god, so you're the ones who have to prove it. I don't really see what's confusing about that.

How to cancel DirecTV on grounds of death and college campus housing?

You signed a contract. If you're too good to fax the death cert you will be charged. I'm sorry for your loss but that is irrelevant to DirecTV.

This girl bullied and ruined my school life and I want her dead. I can't function, what should I do?

Whilst I was at primary school I was bullied by a girl, it eventually stopped until I became best friends with her through high school and it started again, but got so much worse. At school, she turned it around and the teachers believed that she was actually the one being bullied by me. I don't want to go into detail but it has affected the way I am today and even made me clinically depressed. 2 and a half years later, she is really happy and has a really nice boyfriend and I want her to be miserable like she made me. She gets everything she wants and it's really bothering me that there seems to have been no revenge. I know revenge isn't the best answer but it would be the only thing that would allow me to move on. I actually want her dead, which is such a bad thing to wish upon somebody but she made me feel as though I was better of dead at times. It's really getting me down, what should I do? I cant avoid her because I see her in college everyday.

Will these subwoofers work with this amp?

they are 150 watts rms each so together they are 300 watts rms. the zx300.1 would be perfect for them putting out 300 watts rms at a 2ohm final load.

How does anyone rule out heaven?

By determining without faith or a relationship with God that God would never punish anyone therefore there is no heaven and no God! How can you determine who or what God is if you don't know him?

Did you have to be able to afford your children before you planned them?

I was married, renting a place, and we were both working full-time when we had our 1st child. (planned). We hadn't saved money, but we bought baby things (so did our parents) as the pregnancy progressed. I gave up work completely, and we lived on my husband's wage. We managed, although it was a struggle. That's because, unlike so many people these days, we made sacrifices - no new clothes, a car, holidays, etc., for a few years. Never once did we ever have a babysitter for our 2 sons. We simply didn't go out without them

Kingdom hearts is garbage?

Well I know there is going to be the fighting game, but I don't know when. Or do you mean an mlp console game cause I don't know if there will be one, but that would be awesome!

Do i have to be in shape in order to take the gnc multivitamen pack?

No you don't have to be in shape and yes they will benefit you. Those are really good vitamins and they actually aid in weight management and weight loss.

Is there any specific perfume or fragrance that basically gives men an erection?

I know this is a rather bizarre question, but I wanted to ask it as bluntly and, well, clinically as I know how. . . I read in Cosmo once or twice that the combination of (I believe) pumpkin spice and lilac scents are directly arrousing to men? I was curious to find out if this is, in fact true, and with that, are there any absolutely-delicious-magic-love-potion perfumes out there that could convince any man that there is "just something about" the particular female wearing it. . . Just super curious!

Custard pie in the face?

further to previous questions if an unsolicited custard pie to the face is a form of assault. Can the joke still be funny if the intended target first has to give consent therefore removing the element of surprise?

Question about a possible eviction/living situation conflict?

Na she can't legally evict you for doing this it was accidental although it could have been prevented but you have gave your landlord a envolope containg an apology (you should of took a photocopy just incase) and you have giving her the money to cover the costs so I doubt very much she'll kick you out hun because its things that are easily replaced...... Hope all goes well xx

Can a therapist determine if your clinically depressed after one 50 minute session?

i just saw a therapist for the first time because i thought i was depressed. and after my session she determined i was "clinically depressed" after asking questions about my life. i dont have anything wrong with my life which i told her, i answered all the questions truthfully. and she concluded it could be a chemical imbalance in the brain. can someone even with the title as a therapist make a decision if they are really depressed by one session, of knowing someone for 1 hour??? i guess its not big deal, im going back for it but i think it is crazy someone can make a conclusion after that.

There is an instance where human body pronounced clinically dead but hours later revive and come back to life.?

I have witnessed a dead person but hours later revive and come back to life.How do doctors explain this phenomena?

Is he just using me????? :(?

Okay so i recently (almost a month ago) started dating a guy i really like. and at first he was really sweet but soon we both started making lots of sex jokes and over the course of the relationship it seems like it recently just started revolving around sex. but it really does seem like he wants us to be together for a long time but in the present it seems like all he wants is sex...we tried it a week ago on Sunday, but we couldn't because he couldn't get hard enough (he is a virgin) so instead i just gave him a B.J and we were both happy until about 20 minutes before he had to go because he didn't take his medication( he is clinically depressed and on meds) and he just wasn't happy. and usually we don't talk much unless it's in person so like whenever we aren't together we don't talk at all...but now its like he wont ever respond to my texts asking if he wants to hang out or anything and i'm worried he only wants me so he can loose his virginity :( please help! what should i do? break it off or stay with him??

Why do alot of Laker fans forget that for D. Howard to be a Laker, Orlando would have to do a sign and trade?

If Orlando refused to trade him there, he realistically could not sign there as a FA unless he took a mid level exception contract (which I doubt he will). He will have the choice to agree where he wants to sign an extension but he really do not have much teams who will provide him a chance to win and play in a big market in a free agency. All the available free agency teams with cap room like New Jersey, LA Clippers, New Orleans Hornets, and Minnesota cannot provide both. Therefore, I do agree in some ways he and Orlando would have to find a team where they both agree on since he would have to do a trade to make it happen.

How to deal with someone who constantly interrupts?

I have a family member who has this INCREDIBLY annoying habit of constantly interrupting when someone else is speaking. I have no idea of how they cannot see how rude this is!!! When I'm in the middle of saying something and they do it to me, I say 'yep well what I'm saying doesn't matter anyway' but they don't take the hint. Any advice before I go clinically insane?

Are those people who report glimpsing the afterlife after being clinically dead just making that up?

I think some are made up in order to sell a book. I believe there is one story online that is true. Do a search on Howard Storm. He was a college professor who claims to have died and went to hell. It is an interesting story and I believe it is true because I have had some of the same dealing with Jesus/ God that he had.

Saturday, July 16, 2011

How to approach an older co-worker about...?

I have this co-worker, she is a pain in the butt to everyone. She could probably be considered clinically O.C.D., and enforces this problem on everyone else. No matter how perfectly clean the building is, she and her husband (who do does not work here) will come in before everyone in the morning (she happens to have a key) and re-clean everything in the building. Then complain to the owner about what terrible people the rest of us are. The owner knows what she is like, and how she drives the rest of us nuts, but doesn't want to 'rock the boat'. If I approach the owner about it, she will ask me to take care of it. If I talk to said person about it, she gets very defensive, will tell the owner how upset this makes her and then the owner will just agree with her and not back me up at all. How else can I handle this? This person is 30yrs older than me. The reason this is a problem is because this is a massage clinic and her 'cleaning' includes stripping all the tables of their (already clean) pads, blankets, sheets, headrest covers. This is a total waste of resources, and time. Thoughts?

Cons: Why don't you take an Economics class to understand that lowering corporate tax is BAD for job creation?

If you want to start learning about basic economics (which is obviously necessary), I suggest some of the free books at www.mises.org.

What doors to use for a "boiler room"?

We have a boiler in a hallway/room area towards the back of the house. We need to replace the doors the enclose the area. right now that are wooden Louvered doors. Do i NEED to use those kind since they are pretty hard to come by? im thinking if i use normal doors then it will get insanely hot back there when the boiler is running. Also it will trap heat back there instead of spreading it to other rooms.

23km Bike ride what sort of time?

If you don't already know how fast you can do 23 km, it may not work out to be your best event. The speed you can go depends on the nature of the course, it will be slower if there are hills and headwinds. A good time trialist should be able to average about 40 kph, but in a triathlon, you also have to think about the run, if you go too hard on the bike, you may have nothing left for the last section. If you know where you are going to compete, get out and ride the course a few times to get an idea of how to ride it, where to push and where to save energy. The time you take to do the course may be less important than how you ride it

Is it true from the moment we realize the beauty of the opposite sex we tend to want to have one for the rest?

of our lives....but sometimes life does not work the way we expect it too and therefore make general statements such as "marriage is not for me, but am willing to live with someone" Are we all born to seek someone we can spend the rest of our lives with, but some of us become bitter and ruin it for the majority?

I always expect the worse?

I always expect the worse in every situation. I'm never optimistic, before I even do something I over analyze the situation with all the negative outcomes. This has led me to be clinically depressed. Is there anyway at all which I can stop doing this?

Opinions?? Would the following be a good reason to switch to taking Lithium...?

Lithium is tried and true. However, there are potential drug-drug interactions to be aware of and lots of monitoring to be done to make sure you're taking the proper dose. If you're disciplined and responsible then you can make this work. If you're lazy and not able to stay on top of it then I wouldn't advise it.

A general help question on probable depression? ?

If your mood goes up and then really down like that then it could be bipolar disorder. Please see your doctor about it and talk to your parents. You are their child and they love you, you are not a burden on them. You need their support - or at least some reliable person's support. Don't feel like you have to do this alone.

Is there any evidence of medicine is stagnating?

I don't believe I'd agree with that. Medicine makes constant, relentless progress, but it doesn't do so evenly across the board. Yes, Polio was the big killer in the 1950s, and it was solved with an effective vaccine. But look at the progress made in treatment of heart disease. In the 50s, heart disease was simply a killer. You brought in a heart attack patient, put them on bedrest, and they either lived or they died. Today, interventional cardiology is doing absolutely amazing things at fixing diseased or damaged hearts. What used to be a sure death sentence, or something that you leave you as a cardiac cripple, is today often nothing more than a couple of hours in the cath lab, and you go home the next day, good as new. We didn't have CAT scans or MRI machines in the 50s, but look at the progress in diagnosis and treatment they have enabled. Cancer is not one single disease, but hundreds of different diseases, yet every now and then a complete cure is found for one of them. AIDS has been reduced from a lethal and fast killer to more of a chronic condition. Tuberculosis was all but wiped out with the discovery of Streptomycin (but it's returning today). Many parasites that were previously untreatable are today quite easily treatable, relieving a lot of suffering in tropical countries. Schistosomiasis comes to mind; it used to require very complicated filtration of the bloodstream to remove the parasites; today a couple of doses of Praziquantl and the person is quickly cured. The list goes on and on. Eye surgery and prosthetic lens implants. Hearing implants. New treatments for burns. It goes on and on. And all of those things have come about in the past 20, 30, 40 years. I'm sure 40 years from now they'll be curing things that are completely untreatable today. The BIG advances will be in genetic engineering. Lots of good things to come from that field.

Going thru hard time. need to vent/talk?

so my bf and i have been dating for almost 3 years. 1 year ago i got preggo. after a while i found out that when i was on my florida trip (i got preggo almost immediately after i got back) that he was planning on breaking up with me from. then baby came and he decided not to, hes got anger issues. he says he'd never lay a hand on me but for someone that gets mad quickly, throws things across the room, punches holes in walls, and only threatens to throw stuff at me im scared one day he will. last night we got into another big fight where i take all my hidden feelings and tell him everything, he gets pissed and argues back, he tells me he doesnt want me to leave but acts like hes not in love with me anymore, and NEVER wants to be with me in public, blah blah blah. i know i need to get out of this relationship cuz weve done this dance 4 times now and it never gets better. he says if i leave with my daughter he'll report me for kidnapping. i called the cops to see if he could get away with it. they said since we arnt married she is legally MINE and he cant take her from me. that finally made me get the courage to leave knowing i wont lose her and his history of holes in walls from anger and whatnot, ill win any custody. his ENTIRE family is on my side 100% which helps a LOT. problem is i plan on packing up and leaving while hes at work and tell him im gone when im a ways away (i moved to SC from OH). it kills me to know he wont get a proper goodbye with his daughter and im still completely in love with him. but if i told him i was leaving he'd either yank her from my arms and leave or take 1 of his 2 guns and kill my moms bf (hes threatened to do it b4 but only to me). my mom and her bf are taking the 15 hour drive here on a moments notice to help me out. i know i need to get away for not only safety but my mental health (i know im clinically depressed, just dont take my pills anymore. he wont let me). but he came home from work just recently and is being nice and whatnot. that makes me regret leaving. i will leave tomorrow but i need to know what im doing is right. i need support.. i have no friends here so its not like i have a shoulder to cry on. give me your input please

Are clinically depressed people undeserving/unworthy of friendship and romantic love?

Clinical depression is the state your in and there is no such thing as that the person is undeserving or unworthy. Why are you depressed? Laugh by your own for an hour, exercise and when your with a friend listen to what they are saying because most people like people who listen to them and then respond here and there, even if you did respond a few times only the conversation will be good.

Medical entry test in pakistan and difference between entry test of different provinces of pakistan?

i am very much trying to enter a government medical college.therefore i want to that if anyone here has given this test in nwfp or punjab or of agha khan medical college.plz plz tell me about that.i am sick of thinking of this test and there is no website avalible as per my search to provide me with an old paper of this entry test.and plz also if can tell me that what is the difference btw the entry tests of different provinces.and also about nust.is it a medical university and if yes then a government or a private.plz tell me as i hve very little knowlege about thest university.i am from federal board.

When I apply to college, will the college look at my weighted GPA or unweighted?

I think they look at both. However, when you go to college websites and they say the avg GPA, that's unweighted

My parents are both depressed?

They have been for a while and its starting to get to me. My dad is a workaholic who can never escape his job and my mom has been clinically depressed since I was born. She sometimes confides her suicide thoughts with me and it scares me, even though I know (hope?) she would never act on them. I know it sounds insensitive but I can't stand it. I am the only one who was ever happy and now I'm getting tire of always having to hold things together. No one in my house will even talk to me unless I act them direct unavoidable questions. I AM GOING INSANE! How can I help them? My mom already sees a therapist and is on drugs and stuff and I can't convince my dad to work less even though I try every single night. I feel like there is nothing I can do. Is there?

I got diagnosed as clinically depressed?

Looking it up on the internet is a good idea there is a lot of information on depression. If you are going back to see her, write down your questions in advance. This way you won't forget to ask. Some symptoms of depression are sadness lasting for several weeks, feeling worthless, having sleep issues - sleeping too much or not sleep enough. Also depression can affect you eating habits - over eating or not wanting to eat at all. Having trouble concentrating the list goes on... depression affects people differently.

Need help with my life...?

Hey everyone. I am a 19 year old guy and I have attraction to guys and sometimes girls, but I only see myself in a relationship with a guy. Am I gay or bi? Problem is, I am closeted to everyone and if my parents know I like guys, they would for sure kick me out. I know for a fact no one in my family would accept me, as they call me ******, make fun of me for never having a girlfriend etc. I love my family, but it kills me when they make fun of homosexuals because I would love for them to love me for who I am, but it will never happen. I believe I am clinically depressed because I have all the signs of it.. such as nail and finger biting, feeling lonely, crying often etc. I tend to fall for many different guys, but there is this one guy I have fallen for so hard, I'm still trying to get over him for over a year. It's hurts me emotionally because I have never opened up to anyone because I feel so trapped in my own skin all the time. I would love to have a happy relationship, one that my family and friends would accept my partner being together, and get together during holidays, family get togethers etc, but I never see that happening. My brother often has his girlfriend over and she is like family to us, but it breaks my heart knowing I will never have that oppurtunity. Basically, I am begging for help in what I should do, because I feel like this feeling "trapped" feeling is only getting worse and worse.

Minor recurring knee pain? ?

It's the same for me! Apart from I'm 13 not 14. Anyway, I had fluid in my knee and injured it further while skiing. I had physio therapy for it and recently it's got worse again, but probably because I haven't done any of my excercises :L oh well, just go and get it checked out, especially if you are doing netball next season as it has a lot of strain on the knee from twisting and things.

What are the best suburbs surrounding the Vinings?

Why not look in Vinings? Vinings is a nice area, so are parts of Cobb County like east Cobb County (Sandy Plains area of Marietta), Kennesaw is nice as well, and if your husband worked in Vinings he could take 41 instead of taking I-75 if he learns some back roads, would help a little with the commute.

Need help with my life..?

Hey everyone. I am a 19 year old guy and I have attraction to guys and sometimes girls, but I only see myself in a relationship with a guy. Am I gay or bi? Problem is, I am closeted to everyone and if my parents know I like guys, they would for sure kick me out. I know for a fact no one in my family would accept me, as they call me ******, make fun of me for never having a girlfriend etc. I love my family, but it kills me when they make fun of homosexuals because I would love for them to love me for who I am, but it will never happen. I believe I am clinically depressed because I have all the signs of it.. such as nail and finger biting, feeling lonely, crying often etc. I tend to fall for many different guys, but there is this one guy I have fallen for so hard, I'm still trying to get over him for over a year. It's hurts me emotionally because I have never opened up to anyone because I feel so trapped in my own skin all the time. I would love to have a happy relationship, one that my family and friends would accept my partner being together, and get together during holidays, family get togethers etc, but I never see that happening. My brother often has his girlfriend over and she is like family to us, but it breaks my heart knowing I will never have that oppurtunity. Basically, I am begging for help in what I should do, because I feel like this feeling "trapped" feeling is only getting worse and worse.

How can I create Excel text display from the hyperlink url?

I have 773 Excel records with a site name in the "Text to Display" field of the Hyperlink window. The site name is therefore the text that is displayed in the data cell. Instead of the site name, I need the url displayed as the text in the cells. Is there a way to do this other than manually copy/paste these 773 hyperlinks into the "Text to Display" field for each record? One other thing ... there are many, many other records in the file that already have the url displayed as the text in these cells, but the hyperlinks are wrong for all of these records because I sorted the file. Sorting in Excel causes hyperlinks to get associated to the wrong records. This is a known Excel bug which we are working around by working with the text in the link column rather than using the hyperlinks. Thanks very much.

My period is 2 weeks late & negative preg test?seen doc& still unsure??help?

Get your self checked after returning to civilization. If the two doctors can't calm your panic, wait till you return or its all better.

Can an insect fly as fast as a car?

When you're driving at let's say 100 mph, and you have a fly buzzing around in your car, does he get thrown to the back window because you are travelling faster than him or is he free to fly around the car? He's not actually in contact with the vehcile itself as he's flying around. So would the fact that the car is creating a sort of 'enclosed space' enable the fly to be free from g-force? How come we can feel it when we're in the car then? And if we were able to float around without touching the seats or any part of the car, would the vehicles speed mean nothing to us aswell?

Are Catholics allowed to support the Jewish state of Israel?

Pope Pius X was asked by Theodore Herzl (recognized founder of Christian Zionism) to support the Jewish state and he answered: “The Jews have not recognized our Lord, therefore we cannot recognize the Jewish people.” (Pope St. Pius X to Zionist leader Theodore Herzl January 1904)

Friday, July 15, 2011

My toshiba computer screen display is messed up!?

Right click on your screen and select (near the bottom of the box) Screen Resolution. The selection box to the right of Resolution: should have (likely the top of the list) "recommended" beside it. Use that one.

I'm 90% sure that I am clinically depressed. please help me!?

So it started a few years ago, my life was not going well, and I started to slit my wrists and attempted suicide once. My parents found out about my suicidal thoughts, but I pretended that I wasn't serious, so they didn't get me a therapist. Since then I've had major trust issues. I recently lost my best friend because she told me I was too clingy, but she doesn't understand that its because I have problems. I never tell anyone because I don't want them to think I'm a freak, or laugh at me. I act happy on the outside, but I have every symptom of clinical depression. I want to get a therapist and anti depressants, but I don't want to tell anyone. Even though I have suicidal thoughts almost every day. Especially since I lost my best friend. The thing is, that I feel very guilty for even having these thoughts, I have a privelaged life and it makes me feel even worse because I don't deserve what I have. Please help me, I don't know what else to do.

Are town houses bad investments?

I have been looking for a terraced house (only because I can't afford bigger) but have come across a nice town house. It looks great space wise - over 3 floors, large bedrooms, huge kitchen etc, but cheaper than it's terraced equivalent (when comparing room sizes etc). Why is this? Do town houses not sell as well and therefore we may struggle to sell it ourselves if we bought it?

Do you think it would be a goo idea to create a dogs for the dyspraxic?

I am 19 years old and I suffer with both dyslexia and dyspraxia. I have worked with dogs all my life and I have seen and researched the differences on owning a dog has on a child or adult with dyspraxia. Dyspraxia means you have difficultys in moving communication and self esteem etc. But owning a dog increases a persons self esteem making them want to do well and learn and endure new challenges. Do you think people could benefit from a charity called dogs for the dyspraxic where we can train dogs to be well behaved and calm (any breeds) and then give families that have a child clinically diagnosed with dyspraxia (they would have to make a donation) and with there dog they can take him or her everywhere with them. No stupid answers please. Thanks in advance :)

10 Points: Halo Reach Question (Forge) ?

You could make the best map ever and bungie would not put it in matchmaking because thwy would have to pay you

Resident vs. non-resident tax?

In 2008, I filed tax return in both Illinois and Michigan, and now, Illinois is asking me to consider my whole gross income as Illinois income, therefore, my Michigan residency would be a "temporary absence", and not a full residency. So, I would owe Illinois tax, but what about Michigan? Can I ask them to return to me the rest of taxes they withheld from my income? (given that I could not be considered a Michigan resident in 2008)

Ex is suing me for child support he claimed was overpaid?

My son is 17. Last year, I sent him to live with his father out of state, due to drug use and the inability to lawfully get him into rehab. Despite my telling my ex that he would still owe back child support, but it would end up going back anyways to him (because of my new child support order), he still thought his child support arrears would be dropped, because my son was now living in his home. I just received notice from my county court office, that he wants for me to sign an enclosed document, saying that he satisfied his back child support (that has the current balance of $3500), but that he also wants to be paid back another $4,000, because he believes that his $300 a month court-ordered amount was set too high a few years ago, causing an overpayment. (Not only was he receiving unemployment, but he was also working under the table. Unfortunately, the latter cannot be proven, but with state unemployment, child support based their court order on that calculation.) He claims that he now needs this $7,500 to be applied to our son, so that he has money to take care of him until he turns 18. I think this is crazy. There were months, where he didn't even pay child support, and now, he just wants to get off the hook of owing me the back pay (since I had to do it all myself), and since he realizes that he can't declare bankruptcy on this. Should I be concerned? Or should I relax, because as I said, it seems crazy. After all, I'm not working, I'm married, have another child who lives with me and yet I manage to pay my court-ordered child support to my son on time. My son's father, has no other children, and I remember times where I was unable to pay for school pictures, and asked if he could spare $20, and he said he didn't have it. I would then find photos posted on social networks, where he and his girlfriend went on vacation to Bermuda. (I wish that I could bring these photos in as evidence, but unfortunately, I was told they would be irrelevant to the case.)

How should i go about asking my step-mum this?

Do you still see her regularly/talk? If you havent been in touch lately, ask her to hang out. Have some tea or just sit down for a chat. Talk about each others lives and when you feel you're in a place to ask- ask.

Looking for a hotel in Toronto near the Toronto Zoo with parking included?

I want to takemy daughter to the Toronto Zoo and therefore we need to stay at a hotel for two nights.. I want a hotel near the zoo and a hotel where parking is included... And a nice hotel at a reasonable price... Anyone know where I can stay ? Thanks

Christians, is abortion acceptable if the woman is severely mentally ill?

They did not have clinical abortions like what we have now in Bible times. There's nothing against it in there.

Are all Cruise ships equipped with enclosed life boats?

By LAW Cruise Ships are equipped with covered life boats. There is an entire SECTION of Maritime Law that deals with the construction, launching, crewing and operation of COVERED LIFE BOATS.. The LIFE RAFTS are for the CREW

Can anybody tell me if this book is going to be any good?

no no just no. It would work if it was just freaky and depressing. look up some marilyn manson and salad fingers for inspiration

If you're clinically depressed for a long time (years) and there's nothing to help?

you get over it you may as well just off yourself correct? i mean what's the point keep going through the motions. there's obviously no way for SOME people to get over it. ty

My brother (Age 8) has run away!?!?

Maybe you could use food that the dog likes in order to lure him, which ends up bringing up the boy...

Why did my boyfriend's ex add me?

she does seem attached to her ex and i think she is adding you to probably throw a big fit at you and be all emotional towards you, she'll just annoy you i imagine, i would deny the friend request so she doesnt cause any trouble, if you add her it will give her a chance to hang around more and be very annoying good luck :)

Grade 10 Math Question Help!?

A rectangular picture frame measures 20cm by 30cm. a new frame is to be made by increasing each side length by the same amount. The resulting enclosed area is to be 1064cm. Find the dimensions of the new garden. Make an equation to solve the problem.

Approximately how much will silk flowers cost?

I really don't care about flowers. They're just not my thing. Therefore, I really don't see myself paying a lot for them. All of the other decor (including centerpieces) is flowerless, but I don't see myself getting out of carrying a bouquet. I'm pretty crafty though and after watching several tutorials online I am very confident that I can make my own. I'm going to make them out of silk flowers so that I can do them a head of time. How much do you think it would cost to buy the flowers for 1 bridal bouquet and 3 bridesmaid bouquets?

If gays are going to hell then why wouldnt you want to be there thats where the parties gunna be?

for the people that sin and dont ask for forgiveness are going to hell then why wouldnt you want to be with them because technically the devil is in hell but hes on earth which makes earth hell therefore theyll all stay here?

Does anyone have any information on childhood acne?

I have done plenty of research on the subject of childhood acne, only to find articles about children going through puberty early and therefore having acne. Does anyone know anything about having severe acne as a child that is not related to puberty at all? i found one article that said that it was a very serious condition, however the article did not go into any further detail other than the fact that it was serious. I had acne from the age of two to about fourteen. At the age when normal people get acne, mine went away. My acne as a child was also not curable. No soap or cream or change in diet had any effect on my acne. Information or links to articles would be appreciated.

Is there a country in the world where there are no fat people?

By this, I mean, Really fat, Morbidly or clinically obese, NOT just slighly overweight, as this is too easy an achievement so therefore there probably isnt a country without them. Probability suggests that there has to be obese people in every country, but for example, a scandinaivan country tucked away up north might not...

What is God's ultimate intention?

And if it is so that we could serve him, how is that not egotistical, therefore not a good intention whatsoever?

CAN YOU ANSWER THE RIDDLE ?

You're in an enclosed room, no doors, no windows, all you have is a desk, a calendar, a waterbed, and a mirror. First you need to drink, and then you need to eat, and then you need to figure out how to escape before a wrecking ball whacks your house down, how do you drink? How do you eat? How can you escape?

Is this game safe or is it too dangerous?

Sounds like a pretty stupid thing to do, can't you do anything else for fun than handcuff yourselves to trees?

What are the authorized recruitment agencies in Canada?

I would start at CICA, Chartered accountants of Canada, as for agencies (headhunters) there are too many to list. Use google, Workopolis.com, Monster.ca etc.

Do you think I'm retarded?

Retarded is an offensive word to describe people with an intellectual disability. Since you have now asked this multiple times, you do appear to be slow to understand things. Having a disability and everyone hating you has nothing to do with each other. The construction of your sentence leads me to think you are not disabled at all and are just a troll.

Everything is going wrong?

How about this - the majority of people going to university are stressed. I get verrrry stressed with my studying and I do things last minute (usually very badly and sometimes I pass, sometimes I fail) but I really think you just need to buckle-down as best you can and do what you can. If it goes wrong, then you make another choice from there and work out what to do. -You could think about it like being in a room with multiple doors to choose from and it leads you to another room with similar. It's not always best to think about everything (the big picture) at once. Just deal with the things as they come at you and I would suggest taking some time to do things that take your mind off work and stress - things that you enjoy, they are important for keeping you healthy. The stress-relief is just as important as the work. :) I wish you all the best.

I just asked this question (to Atheists...)?

I don't consider myself an Atheist as I do not deny the possibility of any deity/s, nor do I agree that they exist. I choose to take the theory that presents the most evidence at the time, which at the moment is not in favor of any existing deity/s. Having said that, I am studying neuro-science and myself and my mother have had very similar experiences. I don't think the story is fabricated - in fact it's known around the world to happen(maybe just exaggerated a little or simplified too much for this forum). At the moment I have not read enough evidence on the subject to suggest exactly how or why our brains do that, nor do I see it as evidence that any deity/s exist. I too, don't find the statement that 'our brain does funny things' to be a satisfactory argument for how or why this happens, but I do think that science will come up with evidence to at least try to explain the phenomenon (if it hasn't already). I realize I haven't really answered your question but it's not something one can answer truthfully without any real evidence on the subject - just like you can't prove that God exists. I am a spiritual person in that I do believe in 'souls', just not in the way that traditional religious organizations do (in fact what I believe in would probably be viewed similarly to the way the church views the occult) I could go on, but that's another story. It's an interesting phenomenon and I wish I knew more, so I will be looking forward to reading everybody else's comments on this.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Why do people have a problem with God killing people?

But not have a problem with humans killing one another senselessly in wars. Unlike humans God can read hearts. He knows when a person is just wicked and not going to change. But humans can't read hearts. They kill to support ones country or for stupid things like oil. But you will cheer for humans but blaspheme God. God is the source of life. He created us. So therefore he has the right to take a life if he chooses. What gives humans the right to take a life?

To purchase Money Lending softwares?

we are operating the money lending business under Money Lender Ordinances, therefore, we need to install some IT softwares to control the loan : sales and collections plus management report.

Any opinion would help?

I would keep dating him until I'm at least 20. If you're still together you can think about taking things more seriously. You're so young and there's so much baggage around all of this, let things continue the way they are, and decide what to do later if your relationship is still going on when you're older.

I feel like none of my friends care about me?

I can totally Relate to how you feel and if they just don't care about you then maybe try hanging with people who do care about you and your feelings.Sometimes certain people especially girls wont really care about you because they either think its not there problem or they just don't like you. take my advice and try hanging with other people that will care about you being depressed and how dangerous it could be.

How do i mend my broken heart?

my exbf and i dated for a year and broke up 11 months ago.he blocked me on facebook 7 months ago and theres no way i can communicate with him.i know his sister's facebook ,though i never really knew her cuz she lives abroad.should i write to her on facebook and tell him how much i love his brother and how lonely ive become since he left me?ive been clinically depress since the day he dumped me.i wanted to get back with him but he doesnt love me anymore,now all i want is to become friends with him again cuz thats what he promised when we broke ,that we would become friends for the rest of our lives.

Is ever wrong to kill a living organism who has the full set of human DNA?

Such an "organism" is called a "human being". The first case - intentionally starving a human being to death - would constitute murder. In the second case, allowing a person being kept biologically alive by a machine, to undergo a natural death, would be morally acceptable.

HELP WITH BULLYING!!!?

I have a twelve year old cousin being bullied. I know you think he's my cousin, so we're not so close but my other cousin and I who we'll call J have been his idols since forever see him on a daily basis and he's more like a sibling than my real siblings. He's being called tall and thin and pale and gay because he's really talented with music, just like me and my other cousin were. The difference is, J and I were always with the cool crowd in school and didn't act as awkward about it as he does. His parents are really over protective too. They went to the school, who confronted kids about it and only made it worse. Then they tried counseling and this counselor has my little cousin write cheesy books that honestly, if I wasn't his cousin i'd want to bully him to for writing this stuff. The counseling isn't helping and he sees it's stupid too. But we're not his parents and don't want to tell them to change counselors or how to raise their kid, but we want to help. I'm 17 and in the military and one of these days instead of stopping by home before picking him up from school I really just want to show up in uniform in front of all those kids and make it obvious that I'm his big cousin and just say something jokingly like "Wow, I'm glad you're all so nice to him and get along so well." or idk, something like that. J & I can't even talk to the kid anymore because he's so clinically depressed that the two of us, who were his heroes try to take him out for ice cream and but he doesn't care about anything anymore. He would have done backflips for something like that a year ago. But now he just stays inside all day and closes up in his room. And his naive parents think it will get better in middle school. And to help with him being pale they've got him on some no processed meat diet, so now he can't even eat a hot dog or hamburger with other kids like a normal kid. How is THAT supposed to help? I told you they're a bunch of idiots. I just don't know what to do. HELP!!! I love him and this is a downhill path right now.

Why do people put so much emphasis on IQ and intellect?

It annoys me so much there are so many different types of intelligence e.g. Creative, Emotional, and social. but people seem to think that a high IQ is the end all. I have a average IQ, yet i have grade 8 Piano, Grade 6 theory working for 8, and am good at composing, therefore I have a high creative intelligence, but no one seems to appreciate these skills in the same way as a high IQ, I mean is it really that great if you can solve a complex math formula, i cant but what I can do is write a chromatic fugue, write a concerto etc. My view is that music touches the the soul in a way that intellect can't and for that reason i wouldn't change myself in the slightest. A famous scientist when asked what would he show an alien race, he answered the complete works of Bach, Einstein himself said that creativity is more important than knowledge. Let me go bach to bach they predicted his IQ is 165 if think that is wrong, I think that his IQ was about 100 to 110, but his creative intelligence was very high, there is also some evidence that he may of been slightly autistic. But what I am trying to get at is why is there a Superiority around have a high IQ everybody is different and have different strengths and weaknesses, what do you guys think?

What would be the quickest way to train my dog to find friends dogs that may be stuck somewhere?

Go to the United Kingdom Kennel Club and you can find tracking events in the U.K. At those events, you can speak to the handlers, and find a trainer in your area.

Who is stopping gays from getting married? Even in SC they can get married. Why do they say we keep them?

from getting married? They have the same rights to marry as the rest of us. A man can marry a woman, and a woman can marry a man. Therefore, there is NO violation of the equel protection clause of the Constitution. Why do gays feel they deserve special rights to marry a member of the same sex?

Michigan Medical Marijuana and Probation?

If you're on probation, obviously you're no longer a qualified patient. One of the conditions you agreed to when you got the card was that you weren't currently under any legal conditions.

My 2 1/2 year old niece is constantly taking attention away from my 1 1/2 year old daughter. What do I do?

I have been babysitting my niece since my daughter was 3 months old. She is used to being around me and my daughter, therefore, always getting only half of my attentions but it seems lately, since my daughter has been walking and talking (she is 18mo now), her cousin is iffy about her. She's not exactly mean but she's not exactly nice either. I watch another little girl who is only 2 months older than my duaghter and my niece gets along great with her. She holds her hands, asks her to "play" with her things like that, which, I might mention she NEVER does with her cousin. I try not to let it bother me but then she's also starting to act like a baby sometimes, or she'll go to play (sometimes she;ll run to get there first) with a toy as soon as my daughter looks at, or she'll take a toy my daughter was playing with if she drops it or sets it down for a second then parade it in front of her, it seems like almost to get her to take it from her (because no one is allowed to grab toys away from anyone in the house) so I will have to give my kid a time out. Which is another thing....she loves when my daughter gets in trouble (meaning I scold her or put her into timeout) and also loves to try and discipline and yell at her, which I always tell her to stop doing. I love my niece but its getting hard to keep watching her everyday when I sometimes want to just pay special attention to my daughter for even a minute and her cousin suddenly has to pee pee (shes starting potty training) or will suddenly need water or jump in front of my daughter and try to take the attention off of her. Ps- i do pay special attention to my niece as well. Usually she gets 20 minutes of just her & me everyday after the younger ones start their naps before she lays down for hers and besides that I don't know what else to do but its driving me crazy and I need advice on how to get it to stop. Please?! :)