All work, No play. D.I.D.?

I'm a strong woman, trapped inside the body of a weak little girl. She got us where she wanted us and left us all alone like all the others before. Tell me why it is all the research i do is saying I'm the 'alter'. i find that a tad bit unethical when you take into consideration that SHE needs ME, she needs all of us. If it is so obvious to trained professionals that know all about D.I.D., that the host is weak, therefore in dire need of our help. well, i speak for all of us in here when i say ALL WORK AND NO PLAY makes us angry! thats why we make her angry, a vicious cycle that will only cease once we reach a state of coexistence. Alter must be free to fight her will, we are weak apart, but together we can conquer anything in our way! someone please help me make my host understand!